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Her work today, she says, is far more challenging. Aoyama, 52, is trying to cure what Japan's media calls sekkusu shinai shokogunor "celibacy syndrome". Japan's unders appear to be losing interest in conventional Wives want casual sex Rich Hill. Millions aren't even dating, and increasing numbers can't be bothered with sex.

For their government, "celibacy syndrome" is part of a looming national catastrophe. Japan already has one of the world's lowest birth rates.

Its population of millionwhich has been shrinking for the past decade, is projected to plunge a further one-third by Japan couple adult sex believes the country is experiencing "a flight from human intimacy" — and it's partly the government's fault.

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It doesn't say whether she was invited there specifically for that purpose, but the message to her clients is clear: Inside, she takes me upstairs to her "relaxation room" JJapan a bedroom with no furniture adulg a double futon. Aoyama's first task with most of her clients is encouraging them "to stop apologising for their own physical existence". The number of single people has reached a record high.

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swx Another study found that ssx Japan couple adult sex of people under 30 had never dated at all. There are no figures for same-sex relationships. Although there has long been a pragmatic separation of love and Japan couple adult sex in Japan — a country mostly free of religious morals — sex fares no better. More than a quarter of men felt the same way. Many people who seek her out, says Aoyama, are deeply confused.

They're coming to me because they think that, by wanting something different, there's something wrong with them. Official alarmism doesn't help. Fewer babies were born here in than any Nice sweet girl looking for fun on record.

This was Jqpan the year, as the number of elderly people shoots up, that adult incontinence pants outsold baby nappies in Japan for the first time. Kunio Kitamura, head of the JFPA, claims the demographic crisis is so serious that Japan "might eventually perish into extinction". Japan's unders won't go forth and multiply out of duty, as postwar generations did.

The country is undergoing major social transition after 20 years of economic stagnation. It is also battling against the effects on its already nuclear-destruction-scarred psyche of 's earthquake, tsunami and radioactive meltdown. There is Japan couple adult sex going back. They don't believe it can lead anywhere," says Japan couple adult sex.

Marriage has become a minefield of unattractive choices. Japanese men have become less career-driven, and less solvent, as lifetime job security has waned.

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Japanese women have become more independent and ambitious. Yet conservative attitudes in the home and workplace persist. Japan's punishing corporate world makes it almost impossible for women to combine a career and family, while children are unaffordable unless Japan couple adult sex parents work. Cohabiting or unmarried parenthood is still unusual, dogged by bureaucratic disapproval.

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Aoyama says the sexes, especially in Japan's giant cities, are "spiralling away from each other". Lacking long-term shared goals, many are turning to what she terms "Pot Noodle love" — easy or aex gratification, in the form of casual sex, short-term trysts and the usual technological suspects: Or else they're opting out Japan couple adult sex and replacing love and sex with other urban pastimes.

Beautiful couples want horny sex Milwaukee Wisconsin of Aoyama's clients are among the small minority who have taken social withdrawal to a pathological extreme. They are recovering Japan couple adult sex "shut-ins" or recluses taking the first steps to rejoining the outside world, otaku geeksand long-term parasaito aeult parasite singles who have reached their mids without managing to move out of home.

Of the estimated 13 million unmarried people in Japan who currently live with their parents, around three million are over the age of They flinch if I touch them," she says. Keen to see her nation thrive, she likens her Japan couple adult sex in these cases to that of the Edo period courtesans, or oiranwho used to initiate samurai sons into the art of erotic pleasure.

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Aversion to marriage and intimacy in modern life is not unique to Japan. Nor Japan couple adult sex growing preoccupation with digital technology. But what endless Japanese committees have failed to grasp when they stew over the country's procreation-shy youth is that, thanks to official shortsightedness, the decision to stay single often makes perfect sense.

This is true for both sexes, but it's Naughty woman wants casual sex Cape Coral true for women. For Japanese women today, marriage is the grave of their Japan couple adult sex careers. Tomita has a job she loves in the human resources department of a French-owned bank. A fluent French speaker with two university degrees, she avoids romantic attachments so she can focus on work.

After that, I lost interest in dating. It became awkward when the question of the future came up. Tomita says a woman's chances of promotion in Japan stop dead as soon as she marries.

You end up being a housewife with no independent income. It's not an option for women like me. The World Economic Forum consistently ranks Japan as one of the world's worst nations for gender equality at Japan couple adult sex.

Social attitudes don't help. Married working women are sometimes demonised as oniyomeor "devil wives".

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Her end Naughty looking casual sex McCook not pretty. Prime minister Shinzo Abe recently trumpeted long-overdue plans to increase female economic participation by improving couppe and daycare, but Tomita says things would have to improve "dramatically" to compel her to become a working wife and mother.

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I love my independence. Tomita sometimes has one-night stands with men she meets in bars, but she says sex is not a priority, either. They assume I'm desperate because I'm single.

Mendokusai translates loosely as "Too troublesome" or "I can't be bothered".

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It's the word I hear both sexes use most often when they talk Japan couple adult sex their relationship phobia. Romantic commitment sexx to represent burden and drudgery, from the exorbitant costs of buying property in Japan to the uncertain expectations of a spouse and in-laws. And the centuries-old belief that the purpose of marriage is to produce children endures. The sense of crushing obligation affects men just as much.

Satoru Kishino, 31, belongs to a large tribe of men under 40 who are engaging in a kind of passive rebellion against traditional Japanese masculinity. Amid the recession and unsteady wages, men like Kishino feel that the pressure on them to be Japan couple adult sex economic warriors for a wife and family is unrealistic.

They are rejecting the pursuit of both career and romantic success. Kishino says he doesn't mind the label because it's become so commonplace. He defines it as "a heterosexual man for whom relationships and sex are unimportant". The phenomenon emerged a few years ago with the airing of a Japanese manga-turned-TV show.

The lead character in Otomen "Girly Men" was a tall martial arts champion, the king of tough-guy cool. Secretly, he loved baking cakes, collecting "pink sparkly things" and knitting clothes for his stuffed animals. Japan couple adult sex the tooth-sucking horror of Japan's corporate elders, the show struck a powerful chord Any women seeking nsa Spokane coeds Spokane area the generation they spawned.

Kishino, who works at a fashion accessories company as a designer and manager, doesn't knit.

But he does like cooking and cycling, and platonic friendships. Emotional entanglements are too complicated," he says.

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Romantic apathy aside, Kishino, like Tomita, says he Japan couple adult sex his active single life. Ironically, the salaryman system that produced such segregated marital Japan couple adult sex — wives inside the home, husbands at work for 20 hours a day — also created an ideal environment for solo living.

Japan's cities are full of conveniences made for one, from stand-up noodle bars to capsule hotels to the ubiquitous konbini convenience storeswith their shelves of individually wrapped rice balls and disposable underwear.

And Japan's cities are extraordinarily crime-free. Some experts believe the flight from marriage is not merely a rejection of outdated norms and gender roles. It Wife seeking real sex Statenville be a long-term state of affairs.

Is Japan providing a glimpse of all our futures? Many of the shifts there are occurring in other advanced aex, too. Across urban Asia, Europe and America, people are marrying later or not at all, birth rates are falling, single-occupant households are on the rise and, in countries where economic recession is worst, young people are living at home.

But demographer Nicholas Eberstadt argues that Japan couple adult sex distinctive set of factors is accelerating these trends in Japan. These factors include the lack of Japan couple adult sex religious authority that ordains marriage and family, the country's adulh earthquake-prone ecology that engenders feelings of futility, and the high cost of living and raising children.

With a vast army of older people and an ever-dwindling younger generation, Japan may become a "pioneer people" where individuals who never marry exist in significant numbers, he said.

Japan's somethings are the age group to watch.