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If it gets really bad, simply announce that you will come back when she is feeling calmer and leave.

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Nobody your age should have to go though that and this is coming from a 17 year old. You need to have an emergency back up plan. Do you have any friends who would take you in on a moments notice?

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If not, develop some friendships. To keep your sanity, get adequate sleep, eat balanced and sensibly, and have a life outside of the house. Center yourself a couple of times a day by taking a couple of minutes to breath, actually paying attention to relax and breath.

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Feigning victimhood is a favourite tactic of bullies and harassers to evade accountability and sanction. When accused of bullying and harassment, the person immediately turns on the water works and claims they are the one being bullied or harassed - even though there's been no prior mention of being bullied or harassed.

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Some people wholeheartedly believe that they are being persecuted, spied upon, followed and being subjected to various forms of injustice by large numbers of others, including total strangers. This condition naturally leads to an inapropriate and unnatural level of defensiveness, which can culminate in profoundly harmful effects on others. An article in Pacific Standard Magazine examines the work of three University of British Columbia psychologists led by Donald Dutton, who analysed the writings of three mass killers and one would-be mass killer, concluding that they all appeared to have suffered from an intense form of paranoia: See also Lynne Forrest's work on the Drama Triangle where Ms Forrest postulates that people with a victim mentality occupy and move between roles of persecutor, rescuer and victim.

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Without a conscious desire to change, some people never leave these roles. Narcissism occurs to different degrees in different people and it's more prevalent among business leaders than in the wider population. When it gets out of control, the short-term benefits to the business are outweighed by long-term unsustainability which can and often do lead to disaster.

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